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Verb forms こだわる

to be obsessive (about)こだわるkodawaru

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Plain — everyday / written
Polite — respectful to the listener

Core conjugations

Present / future

Use for habits, general facts, and future actions. Context tells you when.

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive / will be obsessive
Plain

こだわる

kodawaru

Polite

こだわります

kodawarimasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive / will not be obsessive
Plain

こだわらない

kodawaranai

Polite

こだわりません

kodawarimasen

Past

Describe an action or event that has already happened. Compare the affirmative and negative forms below.

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive
Plain

こだわった

kodawatta

Polite

こだわりました

kodawarimashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive
Plain

こだわらなかった

kodawaranakatta

Polite

こだわりませんでした

kodawarimasendeshita

Te-form

Connect this action to another clause or grammar pattern. The te-form does not express tense by itself.

Te-form · Affirmative Be obsessive, and…
Plain

こだわって

kodawatte

Polite

こだわりまして

kodawarimashite

Te-form · Negative Not be obsessive / without being obsessive
Plain

こだわらなくて

kodawaranakute

1 alternative

こだわらないで

kodawaranaide

Polite

こだわりませんで

kodawarimasende

If · ば

State a condition with ば. The rest of the sentence describes what follows if that condition holds.

If · ば · Affirmative If you are obsessive
Plain

こだわれば

kodawareba

Polite

こだわりますなら

kodawarimasunara

1 alternative

こだわりますならば

kodawarimasunaraba

If · ば · Negative If you are not obsessive
Plain

こだわらなければ

kodawaranakereba

Polite

こだわりませんなら

kodawarimasennara

1 alternative

こだわりませんならば

kodawarimasennaraba

Potential

Say that someone can do something, whether through ability or because the situation allows it.

Present / future · Affirmative Be able to be obsessive / will be able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれる

kodawareru

Polite

こだわれます

kodawaremasu

Present / future · Negative Are not able to be obsessive / will not be able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれない

kodawarenai

Polite

こだわれません

kodawaremasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれた

kodawareta

Polite

こだわれました

kodawaremashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれなかった

kodawarenakatta

Polite

こだわれませんでした

kodawaremasendeshita

Passive

Put the person or thing affected by an action at the center of the sentence.

Present / future · Affirmative Be affected by someone being obsessive / will be affected by someone being obsessive
Plain

こだわられる

kodawarareru

Polite

こだわられます

kodawararemasu

Present / future · Negative Are not affected by someone being obsessive / will not be affected by someone being obsessive
Plain

こだわられない

kodawararenai

Polite

こだわられません

kodawararemasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were affected by someone being obsessive
Plain

こだわられた

kodawarareta

Polite

こだわられました

kodawararemashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not affected by someone being obsessive
Plain

こだわられなかった

kodawararenakatta

Polite

こだわられませんでした

kodawararemasendeshita

Causative

Say that someone makes or lets another person do something. Context distinguishes permission from force.

Present / future · Affirmative Make / let someone be obsessive / will make / let someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせる

kodawaraseru

1 alternative

こだわらす

kodawarasu

Polite

こだわらせます

kodawarasemasu

1 alternative

こだわらします

kodawarashimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not make / let someone be obsessive / will not make / let someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせない

kodawarasenai

1 alternative

こだわらさない

kodawarasanai

Polite

こだわらせません

kodawarasemasen

1 alternative

こだわらしません

kodawarashimasen

Past · Affirmative Made / let someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせた

kodawaraseta

1 alternative

こだわらした

kodawarashita

Polite

こだわらせました

kodawarasemashita

1 alternative

こだわらしました

kodawarashimashita

Past · Negative Did not make / let someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせなかった

kodawarasenakatta

1 alternative

こだわらさなかった

kodawarasanakatta

Polite

こだわらせませんでした

kodawarasemasendeshita

1 alternative

こだわらしませんでした

kodawarashimasendeshita

Causative-passive

Say that someone is made to do something by another person.

Present / future · Affirmative Be made to be obsessive / will be made to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせられる

kodawaraserareru

1 alternative

こだわらされる

kodawarasareru

Polite

こだわらせられます

kodawaraseraremasu

1 alternative

こだわらされます

kodawarasaremasu

Present / future · Negative Are not made to be obsessive / will not be made to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせられない

kodawaraserarenai

1 alternative

こだわらされない

kodawarasarenai

Polite

こだわらせられません

kodawaraseraremasen

1 alternative

こだわらされません

kodawarasaremasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were made to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせられた

kodawaraserareta

1 alternative

こだわらされた

kodawarasareta

Polite

こだわらせられました

kodawaraseraremashita

1 alternative

こだわらされました

kodawarasaremashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not made to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらせられなかった

kodawaraserarenakatta

1 alternative

こだわらされなかった

kodawarasarenakatta

Polite

こだわらせられませんでした

kodawaraseraremasendeshita

1 alternative

こだわらされませんでした

kodawarasaremasendeshita

Volitional

Suggest doing something together, or express an intention to act. Often translated as “let’s” or “I’ll”.

Volitional / conjectural · Affirmative Let’s be obsessive / intend to be obsessive
Plain

こだわろう

kodawarou

Polite

こだわりましょう

kodawarimashou

Volitional / conjectural · Negative Intend not to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるまい

kodawarumai

Polite

こだわりませんまい

kodawarimasenmai

Imperative

Give a direct command. These forms can sound forceful; use てください for an ordinary polite request.

Imperative · Affirmative Be obsessive!
Plain

こだわれ

kodaware

Polite

こだわりなさい

kodawarinasai

Imperative · Negative Do not be obsessive!
Plain

こだわるな

kodawaruna

Polite

こだわりなさるな

kodawarinasaruna

If / when · たら

Say “if” or “when” something happens. Although it is built from the past form, たら can describe a future condition.

If / when · たら · Affirmative If / when you are obsessive
Plain

こだわったら

kodawattara

Polite

こだわりましたら

kodawarimashitara

If / when · たら · Negative If / when you are not obsessive
Plain

こだわらなかったら

kodawaranakattara

Polite

こだわりませんでしたら

kodawarimasendeshitara

Listing actions · たり

List representative actions, often in a pattern such as たり…たりする. The final verb sets the tense.

Listing · たり · Affirmative Being obsessive, among other things
Plain

こだわったり

kodawattari

Polite

こだわりましたり

kodawarimashitari

Listing · たり · Negative Not being obsessive, among other things
Plain

こだわらなかったり

kodawaranakattari

Polite

こだわりませんでしたり

kodawarimasendeshitari

Verb stem

The part used before ます and patterns such as たい. A stem is a building block, not a complete sentence.

Stem · Affirmative Be obsessive… · stem for other forms
Plain

こだわり

kodawari

Polite

No separate polite form

Desire

Want to · たい

Express what you want to do. The たい ending changes like an i-adjective, including in its negative and past forms.

Pattern Verb stem + たい

Present / future · Affirmative Want to be obsessive / will want to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたい

kodawaritai

Polite

こだわりたいです

kodawaritaidesu

Present / future · Negative Do not want to be obsessive / will not want to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたくない

kodawaritakunai

Polite

こだわりたくないです

kodawaritakunaidesu

1 alternative

こだわりたくありません

kodawaritakuarimasen

Past · Affirmative Wanted to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたかった

kodawaritakatta

Polite

こだわりたかったです

kodawaritakattadesu

Past · Negative Did not want to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたくなかった

kodawaritakunakatta

Polite

こだわりたくなかったです

kodawaritakunakattadesu

1 alternative

こだわりたくありませんでした

kodawaritakuarimasendeshita

Show signs of wanting · たがる

Describe signs that someone else wants to do something, based on what you can observe.

Pattern Verb stem + たがる

Present / future · Affirmative Show signs of wanting to be obsessive / will show signs of wanting to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたがる

kodawaritagaru

Polite

こだわりたがります

kodawaritagarimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not show signs of wanting to be obsessive / will not show signs of wanting to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたがらない

kodawaritagaranai

Polite

こだわりたがりません

kodawaritagarimasen

Past · Affirmative Showed signs of wanting to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたがった

kodawaritagatta

Polite

こだわりたがりました

kodawaritagarimashita

Past · Negative Did not show signs of wanting to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりたがらなかった

kodawaritagaranakatta

Polite

こだわりたがりませんでした

kodawaritagarimasendeshita

Want someone to · てほしい

Express a wish for someone else to do something.

Pattern Te-form + ほしい

Present / future · Affirmative Want someone to be obsessive / will want someone to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってほしい

kodawattehoshii

Polite

こだわってほしいです

kodawattehoshiidesu

Present / future · Negative Do not want someone to be obsessive / will not want someone to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってほしくない

kodawattehoshikunai

Polite

こだわってほしくないです

kodawattehoshikunaidesu

1 alternative

こだわってほしくありません

kodawattehoshikuarimasen

Past · Affirmative Wanted someone to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってほしかった

kodawattehoshikatta

Polite

こだわってほしかったです

kodawattehoshikattadesu

Past · Negative Did not want someone to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってほしくなかった

kodawattehoshikunakatta

Polite

こだわってほしくなかったです

kodawattehoshikunakattadesu

1 alternative

こだわってほしくありませんでした

kodawattehoshikuarimasendeshita

Actions & states

Ongoing action / resulting state · ている

Describe an action in progress or a state that results from an action. Which meaning applies depends on the verb.

Pattern Te-form + いる

Present / future · Affirmative Be being obsessive / will be being obsessive
Plain

こだわっている

kodawatteiru

Polite

こだわっています

kodawatteimasu

Present / future · Negative Are not being obsessive / will not be being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていない

kodawatteinai

Polite

こだわっていません

kodawatteimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていた

kodawatteita

Polite

こだわっていました

kodawatteimashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていなかった

kodawatteinakatta

Polite

こだわっていませんでした

kodawatteimasendeshita

Do beforehand / leave ready · ておく

Do something in preparation, or leave a situation as it is for later.

Pattern Te-form + おく

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive beforehand / will be obsessive beforehand
Plain

こだわっておく

kodawatteoku

Polite

こだわっておきます

kodawatteokimasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive beforehand / will not be obsessive beforehand
Plain

こだわっておかない

kodawatteokanai

Polite

こだわっておきません

kodawatteokimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive beforehand
Plain

こだわっておいた

kodawatteoita

Polite

こだわっておきました

kodawatteokimashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive beforehand
Plain

こだわっておかなかった

kodawatteokanakatta

Polite

こだわっておきませんでした

kodawatteokimasendeshita

Finish / end up doing · てしまう

Describe finishing an action, or an outcome that was unintended or regrettable.

Pattern Te-form + しまう

Present / future · Affirmative End up being obsessive / will end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわってしまう

kodawatteshimau

Polite

こだわってしまいます

kodawatteshimaimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not end up being obsessive / will not end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわってしまわない

kodawatteshimawanai

Polite

こだわってしまいません

kodawatteshimaimasen

Past · Affirmative Ended up being obsessive
Plain

こだわってしまった

kodawatteshimatta

Polite

こだわってしまいました

kodawatteshimaimashita

Past · Negative Did not end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわってしまわなかった

kodawatteshimawanakatta

Polite

こだわってしまいませんでした

kodawatteshimaimasendeshita

Try doing · てみる

Try doing an action to see what happens. This describes trying the action out, rather than struggling to achieve it.

Pattern Te-form + みる

Present / future · Affirmative Try being obsessive / will try being obsessive
Plain

こだわってみる

kodawattemiru

Polite

こだわってみます

kodawattemimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not try being obsessive / will not try being obsessive
Plain

こだわってみない

kodawatteminai

Polite

こだわってみません

kodawattemimasen

Past · Affirmative Tried being obsessive
Plain

こだわってみた

kodawattemita

Polite

こだわってみました

kodawattemimashita

Past · Negative Did not try being obsessive
Plain

こだわってみなかった

kodawatteminakatta

Polite

こだわってみませんでした

kodawattemimasendeshita

Continue onward / away · ていく

Describe movement away from the speaker, or a change that continues from now into the future.

Pattern Te-form + いく

Present / future · Affirmative Continue being obsessive / will continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていく

kodawatteiku

Polite

こだわっていきます

kodawatteikimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not continue being obsessive / will not continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていかない

kodawatteikanai

Polite

こだわっていきません

kodawatteikimasen

Past · Affirmative Continued being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていった

kodawatteitta

Polite

こだわっていきました

kodawatteikimashita

Past · Negative Did not continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわっていかなかった

kodawatteikanakatta

Polite

こだわっていきませんでした

kodawatteikimasendeshita

Come to / toward · てくる

Describe movement toward the speaker, or a change that has developed up to the present.

Pattern Te-form + くる

Present / future · Affirmative Come to be obsessive / will come to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってくる

kodawattekuru

Polite

こだわってきます

kodawattekimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not come to be obsessive / will not come to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってこない

kodawattekonai

Polite

こだわってきません

kodawattekimasen

Past · Affirmative Came to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってきた

kodawattekita

Polite

こだわってきました

kodawattekimashita

Past · Negative Did not come to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってこなかった

kodawattekonakatta

Polite

こだわってきませんでした

kodawattekimasendeshita

Beginning & finishing

Begin doing · 始める

Describe the beginning of an action.

Pattern Verb stem + 始める

Present / future · Affirmative Begin being obsessive / will begin being obsessive
Plain

こだわり始める

こだわりはじめる

kodawarihajimeru

Polite

こだわり始めます

こだわりはじめます

kodawarihajimemasu

Present / future · Negative Do not begin being obsessive / will not begin being obsessive
Plain

こだわり始めない

こだわりはじめない

kodawarihajimenai

Polite

こだわり始めません

こだわりはじめません

kodawarihajimemasen

Past · Affirmative Began being obsessive
Plain

こだわり始めた

こだわりはじめた

kodawarihajimeta

Polite

こだわり始めました

こだわりはじめました

kodawarihajimemashita

Past · Negative Did not begin being obsessive
Plain

こだわり始めなかった

こだわりはじめなかった

kodawarihajimenakatta

Polite

こだわり始めませんでした

こだわりはじめませんでした

kodawarihajimemasendeshita

Continue doing · 続ける

Describe continuing an action over time.

Pattern Verb stem + 続ける

Present / future · Affirmative Continue being obsessive / will continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわり続ける

こだわりつづける

kodawaritsuzukeru

Polite

こだわり続けます

こだわりつづけます

kodawaritsuzukemasu

Present / future · Negative Do not continue being obsessive / will not continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわり続けない

こだわりつづけない

kodawaritsuzukenai

Polite

こだわり続けません

こだわりつづけません

kodawaritsuzukemasen

Past · Affirmative Continued being obsessive
Plain

こだわり続けた

こだわりつづけた

kodawaritsuzuketa

Polite

こだわり続けました

こだわりつづけました

kodawaritsuzukemashita

Past · Negative Did not continue being obsessive
Plain

こだわり続けなかった

こだわりつづけなかった

kodawaritsuzukenakatta

Polite

こだわり続けませんでした

こだわりつづけませんでした

kodawaritsuzukemasendeshita

Finish doing · 終わる

Describe finishing an action.

Pattern Verb stem + 終わる

Present / future · Affirmative Finish being obsessive / will finish being obsessive
Plain

こだわり終わる

こだわりおわる

kodawariowaru

Polite

こだわり終わります

こだわりおわります

kodawariowarimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not finish being obsessive / will not finish being obsessive
Plain

こだわり終わらない

こだわりおわらない

kodawariowaranai

Polite

こだわり終わりません

こだわりおわりません

kodawariowarimasen

Past · Affirmative Finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわり終わった

こだわりおわった

kodawariowatta

Polite

こだわり終わりました

こだわりおわりました

kodawariowarimashita

Past · Negative Did not finish being obsessive
Plain

こだわり終わらなかった

こだわりおわらなかった

kodawariowaranakatta

Polite

こだわり終わりませんでした

こだわりおわりませんでした

kodawariowarimasendeshita

Intentions & decisions

Intend to · つもり

State an intention to do something. Negating the intention differs from intending not to act.

Pattern Dictionary form + つもり

Present / future · Affirmative Intend to be obsessive / will intend to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるつもりだ

kodawarutsumorida

Polite

こだわるつもりです

kodawarutsumoridesu

Present / future · Negative Do not intend to be obsessive / will not intend to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるつもりではない

kodawarutsumoridehanai

Polite

こだわるつもりではありません

kodawarutsumoridehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわるつもりではないです

kodawarutsumoridehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Intended to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるつもりだった

kodawarutsumoridatta

Polite

こだわるつもりでした

kodawarutsumorideshita

Past · Negative Did not intend to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるつもりではなかった

kodawarutsumoridehanakatta

Polite

こだわるつもりではありませんでした

kodawarutsumoridehaarimasendeshita

Attempt to · ようとする

Describe trying to carry out an action, or being just about to do it.

Pattern Volitional form + とする

Present / future · Affirmative Attempt to be obsessive / will attempt to be obsessive
Plain

こだわろうとする

kodawaroutosuru

Polite

こだわろうとします

kodawaroutoshimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not attempt to be obsessive / will not attempt to be obsessive
Plain

こだわろうとしない

kodawaroutoshinai

Polite

こだわろうとしません

kodawaroutoshimasen

Past · Affirmative Attempted to be obsessive
Plain

こだわろうとした

kodawaroutoshita

Polite

こだわろうとしました

kodawaroutoshimashita

Past · Negative Did not attempt to be obsessive
Plain

こだわろうとしなかった

kodawaroutoshinakatta

Polite

こだわろうとしませんでした

kodawaroutoshimasendeshita

Decide to · ことにする

Describe a decision to do something.

Pattern Dictionary form + ことにする

Present / future · Affirmative Decide to be obsessive / will decide to be obsessive
Plain

こだわることにする

kodawarukotonisuru

Polite

こだわることにします

kodawarukotonishimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not decide to be obsessive / will not decide to be obsessive
Plain

こだわることにしない

kodawarukotonishinai

Polite

こだわることにしません

kodawarukotonishimasen

Past · Affirmative Decided to be obsessive
Plain

こだわることにした

kodawarukotonishita

Polite

こだわることにしました

kodawarukotonishimashita

Past · Negative Did not decide to be obsessive
Plain

こだわることにしなかった

kodawarukotonishinakatta

Polite

こだわることにしませんでした

kodawarukotonishimasendeshita

Become able to · ようになる

Describe gaining the ability to do something, or a change that makes it possible.

Present / future · Affirmative Become able to be obsessive / will become able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれるようになる

kodawareruyouninaru

Polite

こだわれるようになります

kodawareruyouninarimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not become able to be obsessive / will not become able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれるようにならない

kodawareruyouninaranai

Polite

こだわれるようになりません

kodawareruyouninarimasen

Past · Affirmative Became able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれるようになった

kodawareruyouninatta

Polite

こだわれるようになりました

kodawareruyouninarimashita

Past · Negative Did not become able to be obsessive
Plain

こだわれるようにならなかった

kodawareruyouninaranakatta

Polite

こだわれるようになりませんでした

kodawareruyouninarimasendeshita

Requests & commands

Please do · てください

Ask someone to do something politely. This is a request pattern, not a tense of the verb.

Pattern Te-form + ください

Expression Please be obsessive
Expression

こだわってください

kodawattekudasai

Please don’t · ないでください

Ask someone politely not to do something.

Pattern Negative plain form + でください

Expression Please do not be obsessive
Expression

こだわらないでください

kodawaranaidekudasai

Do this · なさい

Give a firm instruction, often from a parent or teacher to someone in their care.

Pattern Verb stem + なさい

Expression Be obsessive
Expression

こだわりなさい

kodawarinasai

Please let me · させてください

Ask permission to perform the action yourself.

Expression Please let me be obsessive
Expression

こだわらせてください

kodawarasetekudasai

Obligation & advice

Have to / must · なければならない

Express an obligation to act. Despite the negative pieces in Japanese, the whole pattern means “have to”.

Present / future · Affirmative Have to be obsessive / will have to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらなければならない

kodawaranakerebanaranai

Polite

こだわらなければなりません

kodawaranakerebanarimasen

Past · Affirmative Had to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらなければならなかった

kodawaranakerebanaranakatta

Polite

こだわらなければなりませんでした

kodawaranakerebanarimasendeshita

Should · べき

Express a duty or a strong judgment about what someone ought to do.

Pattern Dictionary form + べき

Present / future · Affirmative Be expected to be obsessive / will be expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるべきだ

kodawarubekida

Polite

こだわるべきです

kodawarubekidesu

Past · Affirmative Was / were expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるべきだった

kodawarubekidatta

Polite

こだわるべきでした

kodawarubekideshita

Had better · たほうがいい

Advise that doing something would be the better choice. The past-form building block does not make the advice past tense.

Pattern Past plain form + ほうがいい

Present / future · Affirmative Be better off being obsessive / will be better off being obsessive
Plain

こだわったほうがいい

kodawattahougaii

Polite

こだわったほうがいいです

kodawattahougaiidesu

Past · Affirmative Was / were better off being obsessive
Plain

こだわったほうがよかった

kodawattahougayokatta

Polite

こだわったほうがよかったです

kodawattahougayokattadesu

Permission & prohibition

Must not · てはいけない

Say that an action is forbidden or unacceptable.

Present / future · Affirmative Be forbidden to be obsessive / will be forbidden to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってはいけない

kodawattehaikenai

Polite

こだわってはいけません

kodawattehaikemasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were forbidden to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってはいけなかった

kodawattehaikenakatta

Polite

こだわってはいけませんでした

kodawattehaikemasendeshita

Need not · なくてもいい

Say that an action is unnecessary. It does not prohibit doing it.

Present / future · Affirmative Have no need to be obsessive / will have no need to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらなくてもいい

kodawaranakutemoii

Polite

こだわらなくてもいいです

kodawaranakutemoiidesu

Past · Affirmative Had no need to be obsessive
Plain

こだわらなくてもよかった

kodawaranakutemoyokatta

Polite

こだわらなくてもよかったです

kodawaranakutemoyokattadesu

May / be allowed to · てもいい

Say that an action is allowed, or ask permission by using the pattern in a question.

Pattern Te-form + もいい

Present / future · Affirmative Be allowed to be obsessive / will be allowed to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもいい

kodawattemoii

Polite

こだわってもいいです

kodawattemoiidesu

Past · Affirmative Was / were allowed to be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもよかった

kodawattemoyokatta

Polite

こだわってもよかったです

kodawattemoyokattadesu

Conditions & connections

If that is the case · なら

Take up a situation or assumption from the conversation, often before giving advice or a response.

Pattern Dictionary form + なら

Expression If you be obsessive
Expression

こだわるなら

kodawarunara

Whenever / natural consequence · と

Describe a regular result, an automatic consequence, or something that happens whenever the action occurs.

Pattern Dictionary form + と

Expression Whenever you be obsessive
Expression

こだわると

kodawaruto

Even if · ても

Say that a result holds even if the action happens.

Pattern Te-form + も

Expression Even if you be obsessive
Expression

こだわっても

kodawattemo

While doing · ながら

Describe two actions performed at the same time by the same person.

Pattern Verb stem + ながら

Expression While being obsessive
Expression

こだわりながら

kodawarinagara

Without doing · ないで

Describe doing something without performing this action.

Pattern Negative plain form + で

Expression Without being obsessive
Expression

こだわらないで

kodawaranaide

In order to · ために

State the purpose of an intentional action.

Pattern Dictionary form + ために

Expression In order to be obsessive
Expression

こだわるために

kodawarutameni

So that · ように

Describe a desired outcome, often with a potential or negative verb before ように.

Pattern Dictionary form + ように

Expression So that someone can be obsessive
Expression

こだわるように

kodawaruyouni

Giving & receiving

Do for someone · てあげる

Describe doing something for someone else’s benefit.

Pattern Te-form + あげる

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive for someone / will be obsessive for someone
Plain

こだわってあげる

kodawatteageru

Polite

こだわってあげます

kodawatteagemasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive for someone / will not be obsessive for someone
Plain

こだわってあげない

kodawatteagenai

Polite

こだわってあげません

kodawatteagemasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive for someone
Plain

こだわってあげた

kodawatteageta

Polite

こだわってあげました

kodawatteagemashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive for someone
Plain

こだわってあげなかった

kodawatteagenakatta

Polite

こだわってあげませんでした

kodawatteagemasendeshita

Someone does for me/us · てくれる

Describe someone doing something for you or someone in your group.

Pattern Te-form + くれる

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive for me or my group / will be obsessive for me or my group
Plain

こだわってくれる

kodawattekureru

Polite

こだわってくれます

kodawattekuremasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive for me or my group / will not be obsessive for me or my group
Plain

こだわってくれない

kodawattekurenai

Polite

こだわってくれません

kodawattekuremasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive for me or my group
Plain

こだわってくれた

kodawattekureta

Polite

こだわってくれました

kodawattekuremashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive for me or my group
Plain

こだわってくれなかった

kodawattekurenakatta

Polite

こだわってくれませんでした

kodawattekuremasendeshita

Have someone do · てもらう

Describe receiving the benefit of someone else’s action, or having them do something for you.

Pattern Te-form + もらう

Present / future · Affirmative Have someone be obsessive / will have someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもらう

kodawattemorau

Polite

こだわってもらいます

kodawattemoraimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not have someone be obsessive / will not have someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもらわない

kodawattemorawanai

Polite

こだわってもらいません

kodawattemoraimasen

Past · Affirmative Had someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもらった

kodawattemoratta

Polite

こだわってもらいました

kodawattemoraimashita

Past · Negative Did not have someone be obsessive
Plain

こだわってもらわなかった

kodawattemorawanakatta

Polite

こだわってもらいませんでした

kodawattemoraimasendeshita

Ease, difficulty & degree

Easy to · やすい

Describe an action as easy to do, or something as prone to happening.

Pattern Verb stem + やすい

Present / future · Affirmative Be easy to be obsessive / will be easy to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりやすい

kodawariyasui

Polite

こだわりやすいです

kodawariyasuidesu

Present / future · Negative Are not easy to be obsessive / will not be easy to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりやすくない

kodawariyasukunai

Polite

こだわりやすくないです

kodawariyasukunaidesu

1 alternative

こだわりやすくありません

kodawariyasukuarimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were easy to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりやすかった

kodawariyasukatta

Polite

こだわりやすかったです

kodawariyasukattadesu

Past · Negative Was not / were not easy to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりやすくなかった

kodawariyasukunakatta

Polite

こだわりやすくなかったです

kodawariyasukunakattadesu

1 alternative

こだわりやすくありませんでした

kodawariyasukuarimasendeshita

Hard to · にくい

Describe an action as hard to do because of a difficulty or obstacle.

Pattern Verb stem + にくい

Present / future · Affirmative Be hard to be obsessive / will be hard to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりにくい

kodawarinikui

Polite

こだわりにくいです

kodawarinikuidesu

Present / future · Negative Are not hard to be obsessive / will not be hard to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりにくくない

kodawarinikukunai

Polite

こだわりにくくないです

kodawarinikukunaidesu

1 alternative

こだわりにくくありません

kodawarinikukuarimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were hard to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりにくかった

kodawarinikukatta

Polite

こだわりにくかったです

kodawarinikukattadesu

Past · Negative Was not / were not hard to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりにくくなかった

kodawarinikukunakatta

Polite

こだわりにくくなかったです

kodawarinikukunakattadesu

1 alternative

こだわりにくくありませんでした

kodawarinikukuarimasendeshita

Do too much · すぎる

Say that an action is done too much or goes too far.

Pattern Verb stem + すぎる

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive too much / will be obsessive too much
Plain

こだわりすぎる

kodawarisugiru

Polite

こだわりすぎます

kodawarisugimasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive too much / will not be obsessive too much
Plain

こだわりすぎない

kodawarisuginai

Polite

こだわりすぎません

kodawarisugimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive too much
Plain

こだわりすぎた

kodawarisugita

Polite

こだわりすぎました

kodawarisugimashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive too much
Plain

こだわりすぎなかった

kodawarisuginakatta

Polite

こだわりすぎませんでした

kodawarisugimasendeshita

Experience & timing

Have done before · たことがある

Say that someone has had the experience of doing something before.

Pattern Past plain form + ことがある

Present / future · Affirmative Have experience being obsessive / will have experience being obsessive
Plain

こだわったことがある

kodawattakotogaaru

Polite

こだわったことがあります

kodawattakotogaarimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not have experience being obsessive / will not have experience being obsessive
Plain

こだわったことがない

kodawattakotoganai

Polite

こだわったことがありません

kodawattakotogaarimasen

Past · Affirmative Had experience being obsessive
Plain

こだわったことがあった

kodawattakotogaatta

Polite

こだわったことがありました

kodawattakotogaarimashita

Past · Negative Did not have experience being obsessive
Plain

こだわったことがなかった

kodawattakotoganakatta

Polite

こだわったことがありませんでした

kodawattakotogaarimasendeshita

Just finished · たところ

Describe being at the point immediately after an action finishes.

Pattern Past plain form + ところ

Present / future · Affirmative Have just finished being obsessive / will have just finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったところだ

kodawattatokoroda

Polite

こだわったところです

kodawattatokorodesu

Present / future · Negative Do not have just finished being obsessive / will not have just finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったところではない

kodawattatokorodehanai

Polite

こだわったところではありません

kodawattatokorodehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわったところではないです

kodawattatokorodehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Had just finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったところだった

kodawattatokorodatta

Polite

こだわったところでした

kodawattatokorodeshita

Past · Negative Did not have just finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったところではなかった

kodawattatokorodehanakatta

Polite

こだわったところではありませんでした

kodawattatokorodehaarimasendeshita

Recently did · たばかり

Describe an action as recent from the speaker’s point of view, even if some time has passed.

Pattern Past plain form + ばかり

Present / future · Affirmative Have recently finished being obsessive / will have recently finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったばかりだ

kodawattabakarida

Polite

こだわったばかりです

kodawattabakaridesu

Present / future · Negative Do not have recently finished being obsessive / will not have recently finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったばかりではない

kodawattabakaridehanai

Polite

こだわったばかりではありません

kodawattabakaridehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわったばかりではないです

kodawattabakaridehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Had recently finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったばかりだった

kodawattabakaridatta

Polite

こだわったばかりでした

kodawattabakarideshita

Past · Negative Did not have recently finished being obsessive
Plain

こだわったばかりではなかった

kodawattabakaridehanakatta

Polite

こだわったばかりではありませんでした

kodawattabakaridehaarimasendeshita

After doing · たあとで

Place another event after this action has finished.

Pattern Past plain form + あとで

Expression After being obsessive
Expression

こだわったあとで

kodawattaatode

Before doing · 前に

Place another event before this action happens.

Pattern Dictionary form + 前に

Expression Before being obsessive
Expression

こだわる前に

こだわるまえに

kodawarumaeni

After / since doing · てから

Put actions in sequence, or describe the time since an action occurred.

Pattern Te-form + から

Expression After being obsessive
Expression

こだわってから

kodawattekara

Appearance & likelihood

Looks about to · そう

Describe what looks likely to happen, based on what you can observe.

Pattern Verb stem + そう

Present / future · Affirmative Seem about to be obsessive / will seem about to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりそうだ

kodawarisouda

Polite

こだわりそうです

kodawarisoudesu

Present / future · Negative Do not seem about to be obsessive / will not seem about to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりそうではない

kodawarisoudehanai

Polite

こだわりそうではありません

kodawarisoudehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわりそうではないです

kodawarisoudehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Seemed about to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりそうだった

kodawarisoudatta

Polite

こだわりそうでした

kodawarisoudeshita

Past · Negative Did not seem about to be obsessive
Plain

こだわりそうではなかった

kodawarisoudehanakatta

Polite

こだわりそうではありませんでした

kodawarisoudehaarimasendeshita

Reportedly · そうだ

Report something you heard or read. This differs from the そう pattern used for appearances.

Pattern Dictionary form + そうだ

Expression Reportedly be obsessive
Plain

こだわるそうだ

kodawarusouda

Polite

こだわるそうです

kodawarusoudesu

It seems · ようだ

Describe an inference based on evidence or the situation.

Pattern Dictionary form + よう

Present / future · Affirmative Seem to be obsessive / will seem to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるようだ

kodawaruyouda

Polite

こだわるようです

kodawaruyoudesu

Present / future · Negative Do not seem to be obsessive / will not seem to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるようではない

kodawaruyoudehanai

Polite

こだわるようではありません

kodawaruyoudehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわるようではないです

kodawaruyoudehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Seemed to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるようだった

kodawaruyoudatta

Polite

こだわるようでした

kodawaruyoudeshita

Past · Negative Did not seem to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるようではなかった

kodawaruyoudehanakatta

Polite

こだわるようではありませんでした

kodawaruyoudehaarimasendeshita

Probably · だろう / でしょう

Express a guess or expectation. でしょう is the polite counterpart of だろう.

Pattern Dictionary form + だろう

Expression Probably be obsessive
Plain

こだわるだろう

kodawarudarou

Polite

こだわるでしょう

kodawarudeshou

Might · かもしれない

Express the possibility that something may happen or be true.

Present / future · Affirmative Possibly be obsessive
Plain

こだわるかもしれない

kodawarukamoshirenai

Polite

こだわるかもしれません

kodawarukamoshiremasen

Past · Affirmative Possibly be obsessive · past assessment
Plain

こだわるかもしれなかった

kodawarukamoshirenakatta

Polite

こだわるかもしれませんでした

kodawarukamoshiremasendeshita

Be expected to · はず

Describe what you expect to be true based on a reason or known circumstances.

Pattern Dictionary form + はず

Present / future · Affirmative Be expected to be obsessive / will be expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるはずだ

kodawaruhazuda

Polite

こだわるはずです

kodawaruhazudesu

Present / future · Negative Are not expected to be obsessive / will not be expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるはずではない

kodawaruhazudehanai

Polite

こだわるはずではありません

kodawaruhazudehaarimasen

1 alternative

こだわるはずではないです

kodawaruhazudehanaidesu

Past · Affirmative Was / were expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるはずだった

kodawaruhazudatta

Polite

こだわるはずでした

kodawaruhazudeshita

Past · Negative Was not / were not expected to be obsessive
Plain

こだわるはずではなかった

kodawaruhazudehanakatta

Polite

こだわるはずではありませんでした

kodawaruhazudehaarimasendeshita

Honorific & humble

Respectful action · 尊敬語

Show respect for the person performing the action. The appropriate expression depends on the verb’s meaning.

Honorific

Present / future · Affirmative Be obsessive / will be obsessive
Plain

おこだわりになる

okodawarininaru

Polite

おこだわりになります

okodawarininarimasu

Present / future · Negative Are not obsessive / will not be obsessive
Plain

おこだわりにならない

okodawarininaranai

Polite

おこだわりになりません

okodawarininarimasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were obsessive
Plain

おこだわりになった

okodawarininatta

Polite

おこだわりになりました

okodawarininarimashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not obsessive
Plain

おこだわりにならなかった

okodawarininaranakatta

Polite

おこだわりになりませんでした

okodawarininarimasendeshita

Colloquial alternatives

Ongoing, contracted · てる

Use the spoken contraction of ている, with い omitted.

Colloquial

Pattern Te-form + る

Present / future · Affirmative Be being obsessive / will be being obsessive
Plain

こだわってる

kodawatteru

Polite

こだわってます

kodawattemasu

Present / future · Negative Are not being obsessive / will not be being obsessive
Plain

こだわってない

kodawattenai

Polite

こだわってません

kodawattemasen

Past · Affirmative Was / were being obsessive
Plain

こだわってた

kodawatteta

Polite

こだわってました

kodawattemashita

Past · Negative Was not / were not being obsessive
Plain

こだわってなかった

kodawattenakatta

Polite

こだわってませんでした

kodawattemasendeshita

Finish, contracted · ちゃう / じゃう

Use the conversational contraction of てしまう or でしまう.

Colloquial

Present / future · Affirmative End up being obsessive / will end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわっちゃう

kodawacchau

Polite

こだわっちゃいます

kodawacchaimasu

Present / future · Negative Do not end up being obsessive / will not end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわっちゃわない

kodawacchawanai

Polite

こだわっちゃいません

kodawacchaimasen

Past · Affirmative Ended up being obsessive
Plain

こだわっちゃった

kodawacchatta

Polite

こだわっちゃいました

kodawacchaimashita

Past · Negative Did not end up being obsessive
Plain

こだわっちゃわなかった

kodawacchawanakatta

Polite

こだわっちゃいませんでした

kodawacchaimasendeshita

Have to, shortened · なきゃ

Express “have to” conversationally, with the rest of the obligation understood.

Colloquial

Expression Have to be obsessive
Expression

こだわらなきゃ

kodawaranakya

About this reference & grammar sources

English meanings help you read the forms; they are not complete sentence translations. A natural expression depends on the verb’s meaning and the situation.

This reference covers modern standard Japanese, with common colloquial alternatives labeled. Some patterns are fixed phrases, so they do not have separate tense, negative, or polite forms.

Japan Foundation grammar notes

Tae Kim’s grammar guide

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